Blogging Throwback Style

March 9, 2026

Hey bestie,

I was reflecting on this blog and my goals with it for how it will help other women, but lately it feels like a selfish attempt at security when I’ve never truly felt 100% secure. I have healed and feel safe in my home and in my family. I feel secure and safe in my relationships. I have not felt secure in my income.

I built multiple streams of income because long-term that’s supposed to bring stability. At yet here I am getting ready to be laid off in May. I have some time, but not a lot.

This is that bit of discomfort that comes before things get really good. Or at least that’s been my experience. I read this quote from somewhere that said life is the calm and peace of the white keys on the piano but the black keys are where life challenges us. That’s where life says “you said you wanted something different, so I hope you’re ready for change.”

What’s amazing is that these last few storms have been easier to sail through now that I have a partner and a family. Building something with someone means sometimes you feel like you’re letting them down, but when you’re honest with each other you grow and become a better version of yourself. You also communicate radically honestly with others.

I don’t always appreciate the words in the moment because it’s not fun hearing that. It’s in hearing that though where I can grow.

I’ll land on my feet. I probably will find myself in an even better position. I’m ready for this storm. I have my wife, my son, our family and it’s all worth what’s waiting on the other side.

With love and gratitude,

Patience